True Identity

There is a lot that is being revealed…

Firstly, I want to begin by saying that the most vicious attacks that the enemy attempts are towards our identity.

Freedom comes from knowing truth. The truth that sin was never meant for us and that there is a way back to the Father, even though it has found a way into our hearts.

So when you stumble in sin, because we always will have this battle here, know that the voice inside that says you can’t try again, or you aren’t good enough, you are dirty, unteachable, and unlovable, is not the identity that is meant for you.

The Word says to be transformed by the renewal of your mind (Romans 12:2). So the enemy hides in our very minds, and we must recognize and train our thoughts and behaviors by reclaiming our God-given authority to overthrow and overpower it.

When a negative thought about yourself springs up, from a current mistake or even a past one, acknowledge it and redirect it with truth. Acknowledge the mistake, but separate it from your identity to move forward in another learned lesson. Deception and truth cannot rest in the same vessel, you have to choose which one you will believe.

This is one of the most profound and empowering lessons yet to uncover within my own walk, and Jesus was the perfect example of this. Despite all his struggles, criticisms, and rejections, in His walk on earth, he never questioned who He was (God’s Son) or why He was sent (to save the world and bring us back to the Father).

You are worth the fight. You are free to be who you are, alive and loved, all the time.


Closed Eyes

Help me not forget who I am…

I long for a more intimate affection,

One that leaves no room for doubt,

But instead I feel no hand.

I see closed eyes when I make love.

I want to be seen.

Even in my faults,

And imperfections.

Seen truly and wholeheartedly,

And it be more than enough.

But how can I expect you to see me,

If I can’t even see myself?

Why can’t the brokenness be beautiful?

Instead I am drowning in a bayou of self-hating thoughts and what-ifs.

Because I know,

Closed eyes means closed heart.

I go through lengths to be noticed,

To ignite whatever fire will hold your interest…

And then it leaves me more bitter than vinegar.

Sour to the taste, with a devouring heat that is much too hard to swallow.

There must be more.

I must find myself again,

Or rather the Inner Spirit…

And be content with how the Creator painted this over-feeling, ever chasing, woman of me.

Winter Song

Won’t you come for me?

Won’t you fight for me?

Just like the winter winds,

Blowing wildly.

Howling in the night,

Just wanting to be heard,

Won’t you save me from this hurt?

Won’t you come right in?

And share with me Your truth,

I tried believing mine,

It hasn’t seemed to work.

I’m left here in the cold,

Feeling so alone,

So won’t you come?

I follow steps in snow,

In hopes you’d see me down below,

Attempting to search,

For answers.

I can’t seem to find a single reason why,

I got left outside,

Other than,

I walked myself right out the door.

But won’t you come?


I used to look into your eyes and feel respect.

Blemishes were small and overlooked,

Now everything is altered.

Now I look and see eyes that have lied and deceived.

We aren’t talking about white ones,

But lies that have manipulated my heart and have hidden parts of who you’ve chosen to become.

No, this isn’t you.

But this is who you want to be.

Forgiveness is sweet in a moment,

But you aren’t warned about the trials that will soon follow.

Paranoia creeps in and I am left in a vicious cycle of what to believe….

Your eyes are so heavy,

And red.

I notice everything,

Even more so than before…

My mistake was not following my gut.

I don’t want to ignore it again,

Because my truth is that you aren’t truly on my side,

And the only one in this house that has my best interest,

Is me.


The wrinkle between my two eyes

Didn’t just appear here over night.

It took time.

Time with a knot in the pit of my stomach,

Analyzing and doubting whether the truth was being told,

Or another fable.

A mixture of half told truths has never drove me to brain splitting pain,


And insanity.

With my clenched jaw,

I long to be able to feel safe.

Feel taken care of.

I drink the cup of hope that seems to never run out,

But freedom of choice is a twisted game.

I play this scenario over and over,

Until my eyes are heavy and achy,

But trusting in man alone is a lesson already been learned.

I remember Your wisdom.


“What will you choose?”

You ask.

“Will you choose to stay in this cycle that has left you bitter again and again?”

“Or will you trust the One who knows you?”

This Box

This box wasn’t meant for me,

So I’m getting out.

Yes, I’m getting out…

This box that has been molded by the world.

From their words and perspectives,

Along with opinions and interjections.

From years of criticism,

And disappointments…

From ideas that have been thrown out and put back in,

Over and over.

From self-defeating thoughts that have kept me from looking out.

And all the expectations that held me in,

Because of fears of failing.

So I bothered not to try.

The walls of lies that said I wasn’t good enough to be on the outside.

And kept me hostage from creatively thinking of my own way out.

Beyond the Branches

Clarity seems a little lost,

When insecurities block out the green, block out the light.

She is not the words,

Spoken from the place of loneliness.

She lets her tears fall down gently,

And lets them spread among the seeds,

Into the places that need more nurturing,

Into the space that grows with grace.

Her roots yearn for intimacy,

And the rain that pours is so sweet.

Although, she gets but a taste.

The lingering affection offers healing,

As her hope is restored in a tomorrow,

Hiding beyond the branches.